How have you realtionshiped worked out?

im curious as to how you went about having a relationships begin. did u just happen to work with someone and had great chemistry? how did u meet? i mean what did u do to win over that girl guy? did u try to make them laugh alot? did u tease them? or were u just your ordinairy self and treated them like any other person u meet? see ive never had a gf and im 21. i think either i dont come off as interested or i just dont connect with alot of women. i have a pretty straightforward, honest, un-emotional, reserved personality. i wonder if my personality works against me since im not the most outgoing person. i mean im not afraid to talk to girls i just dont understand how to attract a woman.i mean i could be myself but that would be just talking to her like i would anybody else and it hasnt really worker yet. were u just yourself around this girl or guy and it just happened to work out naturally?